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Pros and cons of dating a married man

The important thing about the married man is he’s probably coping with his limited marriage by doing something else (work, alcohol, substances, whatever consumes and distracts him).

In some instances he ‘knows’ his wife is cheating on him and looks the other way.

The ‘other man’ is probably afraid that he won’t be able to ‘handle’ a love relationship with a fully available woman.Anyway, the married man like his supposed competition is afraid of a deeper intimacy as well. His willingness to live in a limited marital relationship thinly disguises this fear of deeper love and intimacy.By the way, when people say they are afraid of intimacy, think ‘exposure’ to what they themselves have difficulty accepting in themselves.Let’s do one at a time starting with the ‘other man.’ He is definitely looking for love in the wrong place and with the wrong person.His superficial belief that he wants someone else’s woman for the convenience is a lie he defensively tells himself.Triangles exist simply because a problem is not being resolved in a marriage.Two people get married and have marital problems, instead of resolving those problems either by fixing the relationship or ending it, which by the way can be a valid resolution of a problem, a third party is brought into the relationship, and now you have a triangle.Too many pieces for stability what you get instead is fragmentation, conflict, and limited intimacy.So let’s look at the type of triangle that has one woman and two men in it.Most people I’ve met who are afraid of intimacy, lose the fear when they accept and feel better about themselves.The question is whether or not the married man will fix this intimacy issue with this wife.

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  1. Loverville. Like you said of course it has its pros and cons, like anything else in life. I had a four-year relationship with someone I met online.

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