The scenario: “I recently received a message that said, ‘Damn you’re a pretty white girl, you into muscular black men?
Stick to neutral subjects — like mentioning a common ground you share based on something you read in her profile.
One girl we spoke to told a story about a guy who sent her a hilarious quote from the movie she had mentioned in her profile.
Pick something specific she wrote about herself, and ask her a follow-up about it.
It is easy to use and I have messaged with a lot of people. Not sure if that is a second chance feature or bug.
Also noticed I set for distance of 200 miles and I will still get California which is more like 3000 miles away.