I am sad, frustrated and angry how this ended as underneath all of his insecurities, unresolved issues with his wife’s death he is a good guy. No-one seems very interested in making an actual purchase or commitment. So, the question is, would you give this way of meeting someone a chance…I had been on these dating sties for 2 and 1/2 years and now I am looking at Matchmaking services as a better choice in finding a “Better good guy”. I notice that all the previous comments are from women only. an app where you can listen in to answers people give to questions other user asked before and where you can get a feeling for somebody before you even see them?And you look at women’s attractiveness, it goes really up at low BMI and really drops below that.They look at hair color and they look at height and they look at income, and that’s basically it...And you can ask, is it because that’s all people care about or is that because that’s what the system is giving them to search for.Sure, we are superficial, we do care about attractiveness and height and income and these are features for us, but I think they’re exaggerated by the way the system is created. Reis (University of Rochester), and Susan Sprecher (Illinois State University) take a comprehensive look at the access, communication, and matching services provided by online dating sites.Although many dating sites tout the superiority of partner matching through the use of “scientific algorithms,” the authors find that there is little evidence that these algorithms can predict whether people are good matches or will have chemistry with one another.
And we show that this is actually much better and would lead to much more, much higher probability of going on a second, on a real date afterward.
And then went a step further, did some studies with online daters about how much they enjoyed it and what they were getting from it, until the final stage, we, I figured out, I thought I knew what was going on, which is that online dating sites assume that people are easy to describe on searchable attributes.
Read the Full Text Many of us enter the dating pool looking for that special someone, but finding a romantic partner can be difficult. Dating sites provide access to more potential partners than do traditional dating methods, but the act of browsing and comparing large numbers of profiles can lead individuals to commoditize potential partners and can reduce their willingness to commit to any one person.
" And I took people that I liked more and I liked less, and I took their profile and I tried to figure out could I tell the difference?
Imagine you went to 50 people you really like and 50 people you only like so-so, and you asked all of them to fill this profile, then you took this 100 profiles and you tried to sort them out into piles.