Touching feels good, arousal feels good, and orgasms are nonproblematic. Such a woman can afford to pick a lover because he’s sexy or lovable, not because he owns three apartment buildings in prime locations.She can try to find the kind of man most to her liking, using intrinsic rather than extrinsic criteria. I will explore this paradigm shift in female sexuality in future posts in greater detail.From the first page of Couple.net's English-language website or Korean-language website or Chinese-language website, new members are hit with a list of job-interview-style questions aimed at satisfying the most pragmatic dating heart. Part of Couple.net’s appeal is omitting the fuss of traditional middlemen or couple managers.“If you hire a couple manager, the cost shoots up,” says Oh.“By introducing the Logic through the Internet and providing such opportunities at a fairly lower cost, you get to choose (your date) and pay whenever you wish.”To ensure that members really are who they say they are -- does that 29-year-old brain surgeon really come with Grade A looks?is an hour-long series that attempts to answer the age old question, can dating your best friend be the key to lasting love or a recipe for disaster.
It wasn’t so much that men had to be attractive as that they had to have attractive compensating features, such as money or power.-- members are screened three times and scored on a reliability test.“We call ourselves crusaders,” says Oh.“You get certified dates delivered to you by email. ” Well, someone who’s not allergic to our seventeen cats and doesn’t mind our addiction to video games would be a good start.For the good wife, sex was business, and sexual intercourse was work.Many good wives were happy in their work, but it was work all the same.While some count their years of friendship as the foundation for their relationship, others want to be swooned all over again. Lonely hearts fill in personal profiles, submit them to the company and wait for date requests from certified hotties to start pouring in. Members are asked to rate themselves on a scale from A (very attractive) to F (least attractive). According to Oh, the profile process is a soulful, self-defining moment.“What are you going to do with your date’s favorite color? “While Western societies consider horizontal aspects of a person important, such as one’s favorite shape or flower, Asian countries stress the vertical. Once members complete their profiles, the information is transmitted to a unique computer selection algorithm launched in August 2010 known as “the Logic.” After crosschecking numerous profile answers with possible companions, the Logic emails two date possibilities to members every Monday morning. Couple.net’s basic methods are familiar to anyone who has ever used a matchmaking service. The company may promote itself as “traditional,” but its business is driven by a computerized psychological matrix that it says facilitates successful pairings among Seoul’s unhitched.Supposedly, North America has experienced a social and sexual revolution over the past thirty years.Supposedly, there are now different options for women – compared to our grandmothers and mothers – who are liberated in many new ways and who have given up old stereotypes. Let’s further assume that the is enough in charge of her life and destiny that she can make her own way.