If you don't sleep with them fast enough, they get frustrated and lose interest." GF #3: "Online daters, especially the older ones, are like kids in a candy store, not ever giving anyone a chance because there's always someone else." My Advice: Slow down.Don't get too flirty too fast, don't text, and definitely don't sext.So men, before you break out into a cold sweat, know that all this is well intended and researched. Since I got married for the first time at 51, I can speak from experience when it comes to dating men in their 50s.I've gathered input from three of my most trusted single girlfriends whose ages range from early 40s to late-50s. We love you guys and want the best for you, so here goes.
I don't want her to worry unnecessarily, so I'm telling you guys instead. How do I remember that my path is my path, and that path requires being alone a lot, and that just because it's different doesn't mean it's wrong? It can consume you when you're in a room full of people, or it can sneak up on you when you're all by yourself.
So take your time getting to know your date; ask questions, be curious.
And when you've accrued a decent amount of courtship hours, then you can bang away.
TOO FURIOUS Ok, so you're livid at your ex, or fuming about the divorce, or bitter you're still on after all these years. We get your circumstances might suck, but don't let it consume you.
Don't let your anger turn into emotional baggage you carry around everywhere you go.