You’ll probably even get her to fall for you completely over text! Trust me, when you figure out exactly how to do it, you’re going to LOVE texting! I like to use them here and there just to lighten things up with a woman.I’d like to start off with one of my most important and helpful texting tools . Some dating coaches wouldn’t recommend doing this, but I disagree.We become obsessed with checking our phones every couple of minutes, and we don’t take control of our lives.Instead, we let our cell phones control how we live!(The same thing could be said for using “haha” as this is interchangeable with “lol.”) To lighten the mood again for something that seems serious, you might say to a woman, “Yeah, I just got home from the gym.
It’s not literally meant to mean that you’re “laughing out loud,” but it has transformed more into meaning that you’re joking or find something funny.You’ll want to appear as if you’re high status and busy as well and take your time in replying to her, too. You don’t want to appear too available as this makes you look needy. You’ve probably done this before already, thinking that if you didn’t reply to her fast enough, she might lose attraction for you or she might be upset with you because you take too long and that might ruin your chances with her. Come on, admit it, you’ve done this before; everyone has. It’s not a rule that should be followed to a tee, but it should be loosely followed, and if done, should put you into an attraction-building position.I say loosely followed here because you don’t want to always text her eleven minutes after she texts you if she usually takes about ten minutes to text you. If she is in a pattern of texting you every ten minutes or so, and you have seven texts between you, take 15 minutes, 20 minutes, 8 minutes, 10 minutes, 30 minutes, 5 minutes, 13 minutes. They’re more of the natural timing texts between friends would be.Take that “lol” out of the sentence, and it really just comes across as strange.But when you keep it in, it shows that you’re just making a joke out of something boring. It’s so much easier to come up with your own as this has no context for a real conversation and would be useless if you tried to duplicate it.At the same time, though, you’re making a bit of a joke about her not being around, so it’s a good way to ask something semi-seriously while at the same time coming across as playful. Using “lol” is a similar thing I like to do and recommend.It’s basically the same idea as the smiley face and can also be used to lighten the mood.You see it everywhere, from texting and driving to people out on dates, where one person is texting while the other is looking around, bored to death.For me, waiting to hear back from people I had texted made me very restless.I’d look at my phone every minute or so after I had texted a woman to see if she’d replied back yet.I’d look at my message, make sure it had been sent and had actually gone through.