filthy rich or dirt poor I have a friend that's great at asking "would you rather" questions. But it can be fun to put creativity into coming up with different scenarios to choose from. live where the sun always shined or where it never did? If we end up dating, will either one of us be settling? How will you react if I keep my guard up with you (for a little while, at least)? Finally, sometimes it's just good to find out how the other person is doing. (i.e., what is the first thing you do when you get to work? What are your favorite/least favorite parts of your day? Is there a major challenge we should be praying about as a family? What is one thing you have learned about God this year? When was the last time you saw a direct answer to prayer? Favorites can also change regularly, so they're easy to cycle through (especially things like current favorite song). What follows are some ideas, but certainly not as creative as this could go!
However, when put on the spot, some of us aren't great at coming up with random memories, so it helps to have some questions to bring those past experiences to mind. " Just a few questions spread throughout the date night, or even throughout the week. I notice the lull in conversation, and I start with a prolonged "Whhhhaat..." in hopes that something fun, funny or profound will follow. Instead, all that slips out is a line from Monty Python and the Holy Grail: "What... " The other night that lead to a full conversation of our favorite Monty Python bits ("are you suggesting that coconuts migrate? However, I wanted to include them, because talking about the tough stuff builds intimacy and can be beneficial in preparing for the unexpected. If you knew you had 30 days to live, how would you spend that time? If today was your last day on Earth, what would you do? These questions can be kind of a downer, so should be used sparingly and with caution. All it takes is a couple questions to get that going. These are similar to favorites and can be expounded on, but are great for rapid-fire, too. No interrogating (no need to ask all 100 questions at once); no vague "so, what's new with you? trip and fall in front of 10 people you don't know, or say something embarrassing in front of 1 celebrity? There are endless possibilities to complete the scenario, but you're just getting the conversation going. If you could start any non-profit or service project, what would it be? have a great personality and be unattractive or have a terrible personality and be very attractive? never have to clean the kitchen again, or never have to clean the bathroom again?