(At the time, I was 40 to his 35.) "He won't want to be with me when he finds out how old I am." Not so long before, a younger boyfriend had broken up with me by saying, "I think you're going to be too old to have my children." I decided then I'd only date older. We fell in love, got married and now have a baby girl.That's a shame, because I think it's a major benefit. That's not just a younger guy you're dating; it's utopian values, in human form. When I first started dating Alex, I assumed he was my age.She’s looking for someone who’s comfortable with who she is. I don’t have any expectations except meeting new people,” says hankerson, a 35-year-old nurse. Two days before the potluck dinner that our mutual acquaintance planned with the express purpose of introducing us, I called her and said, "I'm not coming." "Janet," she replied, frustrated, "I'm inviting you here to meet a straight, available man who likes to cook and garden, who makes furniture and has two dogs. I'd find a nice divorced guy, maybe with kids; I'd be the world's best stepmom. And sure, five years younger relatively minor, but to many women that gap would be unacceptable. My husband washes bottles and does nighttime feedings without acting like he's a hero.Times researcher caryn baird contributed to this report.Just move on to the next table when the bell rings, and circle “no” on your match sheet. Oriented policing in open and democratic societies.That relationship between a younger guy and an older woman is likely to be supercharged by a combination of the younger man’s peak sex drive and the older woman’s confidence, experience and her own sex drive.There are some other compelling reasons for why older women are more attractive to younger guys.
Being around a younger guy makes a woman feel younger as well.And of course, it’s not a secret that women in their thirties and forties have a much higher sex driver than the ones in their twenties.That higher sex drive translates, among other things, into being more direct with men." It turns out he was 41, a whopping 13 years older than me.My eyes popped that night, but four years later, I've realized that this potential deal breaker is actually the biggest blessing of our relationship. After four decades of life, Alex is a walking encyclopedia.No woman is attracted to a guy who is a couch potato or who is unable to climb a set of stairs without being out of breath, especially if the woman herself is very active.Young guys have a stronger sex drive and are naturally hungrier for a woman’s body.(For me, that was my entire eighth month of pregnancy.) Alex never takes the bait.He made that mistake with past girlfriends, he tells me, when he was younger and hotheaded.But it's what he say that I count as the real blessing.You know those days when you're cranky and wanting to pick a fight?