These are red flags that indicate that this guy might not be the best choice for you. You should not be willing to accept these men into your life.It is likely that he was high many of the times you were together. Why not seek a mate who is not using drugs or sending all his money to support a drug habit? To paraphrase Maya Angelou, “people always show you early on who they are and if you don’t hear it it is because you are just not listening.” What this means for you is that he is showing you his true colors right now, early on.(my name), seriously….down now if you aren’t already.I’ve been at my parents house and under their supervision (which includes not accepting or sending any phone calls until recently) because I have an addiction to drugs.
Apparently, he must have been using a substantial quanity of drugs for a significant period of time. For two reasons: He is at the point of detoxing, and you typically do not detox after using just a little bit of cocaine and secondly, he has “pissed away everything [he] own [s] or [is] worth on cocaine.” While, I admittedly do not know the extent of his use, (nor do you it sounds like), or just how severe his drug problem really is, I can say that based on a few items from his letter, his drug problem is significant.
I’m not real sure how you’ll take this little piece of crucial info, but all I can say is that I’m sorry especially for the last few days, but also for just being the kinda guy I don’t think you expected me to be.
If you get done reading this letter and decide I may still have a little bit of credibility with you and you want to call me, that would be great.
If you are struggling with a heroin addiction, there is help. Hi Guys, I'm 24 but i've never posted on a forum before and it makes me so happy to see that there are support groups like this.
One reason i've come to this site is because it's anonymous but another is because i'm embarrassed to really talk about the issue with anyone else.