Always be Respectful, Manners count everywhere in life..!!! Remember everyone has their own lives, lifestyles, and fetishes; please be respectful to everyone's opinions. NO Lurking (not joining in on chat) lurkers will be removed (at least say hello). NO cyber (online sex) in the Lounge, please use the Dungeon or take it privately Males impersonating females Dominants will not be tolerated and will result in immediate bans. This chat is open to Dominant women, and male submissive only, female submissive are most welcome if they serve, or wish to serve in a Femdom relationship. Anyone under the age of 18, SPAM of any kind, Advertising of any kind, Money or financial Domination, Incest, Bestiality (sex with animals), Insults, or flames Libel, Age play, Snuff topics, or those involving death of yourself, or another, Topics intended to inflame, or defame.
Entering an on line chat room and announcing "On your knees! You might impress the dazzled and the desperate, but real dominants and submissives will laugh at you.but there aren't that a lot of quality submissive males ,if you are a quality sub... Don't do the cyber kneeling, serving coffee, rubbing feet and other silly crap In the main room (leave it for the dungeon), we don't go for that. its nothing to be ashamed of its unfortunate that many forget they were new once, and look down upon newbie's. Please remember when you are experienced that you were new once.Take the time to demonstrate how intelligent and witty you are. The regulars in Collar Ncuffs will take the time to answer sincere questions. No question is too stupid or silly 8) Some subs here really stand out in Collar Ncuffs.Butt kissing is easy, making yourself interesting is a challenge.Don't offer to submit to the first Domme who talks to you.9) If you were to walk into a crowded bar where everyone was busy talking, went and sat in a corner and meekly said Hi nobody would notice you the same applies here don't just say Hello all.... Hi Miss Bonnie ( hint, I dislike being called Mistress Bonnie unless I own you) 10) Being worthy. Perhaps you should do whatever it takes to make yourself worthy!:) 11) Some people seem to think that being a sub male means being a "Wimp" but I can tell you from first hand experience (Oz is no wimp)..Remember, this is not an interactive sex program you are playing with.There are real people on the other side of that screen.Don't lead subs on to submit to you if you are just sub collecting for the heck of it, or if you have no intention of actually taking care of this person's well being.Domming someone is a lot more than dressing in black and beating the crap out of your sub.